Making Space for Something New

In 2019, my wife and I quit our jobs (our careers, really) and decided to make space for something new. I’m not sure either one of us had any idea what that would be. But we sold and donated half our stuff, packed some things in storage, and loaded up our suitcases to move abroad.Continue reading “Making Space for Something New”

Fear of Being Seen

Children who were frequently teased, judged, criticized, micromanaged, mistreated, compared, guilted, shamed, bullied, or abused often grow into adults who are terrified of being seen by others. Understandably so. But this translates into a fear of vulnerability, intimacy, and authenticity. A fear of self-expression and even of self-examination. The sense of self atrophies for thoseContinue reading “Fear of Being Seen”

What If I’m Incapable of Love?

I’ve experienced moments of being undeniably and wholly consumed with love – in family, friendship, romance, nature, creativity, and spiritual pursuits. We’re talkin moved to tears love. Feel it in my bones love. Capital L love. However, I’ve also felt periodic moments of alienation and nihilistic, existential self-doubt wherein I question my very capacity for love.Continue reading “What If I’m Incapable of Love?”